Think
I once formed a mutual encouragement fellowship at a time of stress in one of my pastorates. The members subscribed to a simple formula applied before speaking of any person or subject that was perhaps controversial.
- T—Is it true'
- H—Is it helpful'
- I—Is it inspiring'
- N—Is it necessary'
- K—Is it kind'
If what I am about to say does not pass those tests, I will keep my mouth shut! And it worked!